Vulnerability in Love

  I had big trust issues growing up. You would think this made me guarded, secretive, defensive. No. Instead I made myself vulnerable to everyone. I decided the best way to protect myself from disappointment, was to have no expectations of anyone. I recall my explanation to a friend – since I couldn’t bring myself to trust anyone, I would make sure anything I disclosed … Continue reading Vulnerability in Love

Relationship Status?

It isn’t my relationship that redeemed me. Some of us have been to terrible, dark places in our lives – paths we blame ourselves for journeying; so that if any man or woman should choose to love us, deep within us we believe there lies our redemption. “She can be loved” His proposal tells the world “she can be loved”, and having her by his side makes him … Continue reading Relationship Status?

Single and Rich: Personal Growth

BEING SINGLE IS BEING RICH   Personal Growth – Wisdom Richard met Grace one frosty winter morning. Grace was also frosty. The cold weather had clearly worn at her patience, and the wait for the bus to the train station made her all the more intolerant. But a small warmth gathered in the bottom of Richard’s stomach – in this bitter cold, he was beginning … Continue reading Single and Rich: Personal Growth

Single and Rich: Spiritual Growth

BEING SINGLE IS BEING RICH   Often times, our spiritual growth changes in pace and direction. For instance, discovering a new spiritual gift within a short space of time or developing an enduring faith in God, over a life time.Yes the spirit is a mystery…beyond human understanding. But by the grace of GOD , HE reveals to us, what we need to know, when we need to … Continue reading Single and Rich: Spiritual Growth

Single and Rich

BEING SINGLE IS BEING WEALTHY Many of us don’t understand just how privileged we are even before we say “I do”. Let me explain. When you are single you have a currency £$ of potential at your disposal. A blank chequer. You have access to a savings account banked with: Accomplishment, spiritual growth, personal growth and experience. Whilst we’re single, the time we have for ourselves is probably at its … Continue reading Single and Rich

Teach me how to love

So for those of you who have yet to see my latest video   I basically talk about my decision to study relationships in accordance to the will of God and to use Joshua Harris’ books: I Kissed Dating Goodbye (new edition 2003), Boy Meets Girl – say hello to courtship (2005), Sex Is Not The Problem (Lust Is) (2003)… to edify me on this … Continue reading Teach me how to love

What 2 Watch: Ready or Not

Will you be ready or not? This performance from P4CM poets Ezekiel and Janette..iks is by far one of the most moving spoken word performances I’ve seen to date (I’m a spoken word artist, so my perception maybe somewhat biased), with the risk of sounding over dramatic. I was deeply inspired, moved, edified by the performance and the lyrical content. ‘I’m trying to remember why I was … Continue reading What 2 Watch: Ready or Not